It’s always been a part of my character and lifestyle to have more going on than I can manage at any given time. I find it fun when things come at me fast, presenting new obstacles and challenges to tackle. Especially now, being in a new phase of life, it has been exhilarating to encounter so many opportunities, ensuring there’s never a dull moment or a chance for distraction.
But sometimes, it’s too much. There are moments when the multitude of tasks and directions make you feel as though you’re not doing anything well. Your time and responsibilities are divided among work, family, friends, causes, and activities outside my daily routine. It seems like you’re attempting to do so many things, yet accomplishing them so poorly, that in reality, you’re achieving nothing, despite believing the opposite.
It’s at times like these where I have to stop. That means to pause, breathe for a minute, and remind myself that not everything can happen at once, and sometimes, doing the best I can is all that’s possible. As someone who thrives on being busy, accepting this can feel like a failure or disappointment. Yet, by selecting which activities to pursue, I’m also choosing not to engage in others that may be less important or necessary.
Every now and then, it’s crucial to pause and consider the good things in life and the positive aspects. Taking a moment to reflect helps you to slow down and appreciate all that you’re accomplishing, all that you’re doing, and the phase of life you’re experiencing.
Another perspective was offered to me recently in the form of great advice: “Be where your feet are.” Don’t try to be in too many places, rooms, or situations. Simply be present where you are.